On February 24, 2024, just after the Chinese New Year, Ms. Zhang from Beijing sought my guidance. She was a tall, elegant woman with a round face, fair complexion, bright eyes, and flowing hair. Despite her fashionable appearance, her expression carried a hint of concern.
Ms. Zhang worked in arts and culture, frequently traveling for business. While her career had flourished in recent years, her romantic life resembled a small boat without a harbor, constantly facing turbulence.
After analyzing her situation through Qi Men Dun Jia, I observed, “This is a classic love triangle. You’re someone who holds on firmly to what you believe in. You’re deeply in love with someone who has another girlfriend. Marriage could have been possible, but you missed the timing, and another woman seized the opportunity during your hesitation.”
Ms. Zhang nodded, interrupting, “We were together in 2021, broke up last year, but he came back twice…”
I continued, “Let me explain. Your ex-boyfriend has a square face, slightly bow-legged, intellectual, and quite talkative. Though hot-tempered and sometimes physically aggressive, he genuinely cares for you.”
“That’s exactly him, and I just can’t forget him,” she admitted.
“However, you missed your chance. In December, another woman moved in with him. She was strategic, taking swift action, and they began living together almost immediately.”
“Yes, she actively pursued him. Will they get married?” she asked anxiously.
“They’re planning their wedding this month. This woman has poor eyesight but is outgoing, sensual, and knows how to keep a man’s attention.”
When Ms. Zhang mentioned wanting to stop the wedding, I advised against it, explaining, “There’s no need. What’s past is past. Actually, there’s someone else who loves you – a successful businessman in real estate materials, bold and intelligent.”
“Yes, he gave me a ring worth 90,000 yuan as a proposal.”
“He’s clever, and while his love is genuine, that ring is worth closer to 45,000 yuan.”
“But that doesn’t move me. I only love the first man.”
I smiled, “That’s why all four people involved are suffering. Your environment is contributing to this situation. You must have electronic devices making noise and books on your office desk in the north.”
“Yes, there’s a desk with a refrigerator beside it.”
“And you have a dark mole on your right rib.”
Surprised, she confirmed this, asking about its significance.
I provided specific environmental adjustments and suggested removing the mole to help shift her perspective.
Ms. Zhang’s mood lightened considerably. Before leaving, she sought final advice.
I responded, “Choose wisely between someone who loves you and someone you love.”
A month later, Ms. Zhang called to share joyful news – she was engaged to “the one who loved her” and planning a May Day wedding.
